Caregivers Advice

Finding A Caregiver For Your Elderly Parent Or Other Family Member -
Knowing What Questions To Ask
By Connie Ragen Green

As our population ages, caring for the elderly becomes a bigger and bigger dilemma. Many baby
boomers are now faced with caring for their elderly parents or finding someone else to help. If
they must work all day, these adult children of the elderly may find it difficult to find the right person
to take care of their parents or other elderly family members.

Caregivers tend to be women but many men do an excellent job as well. When looking for
someone to take care of an aging family member consider these things:

· Where will your elderly relative want to live? Most people are more comfortable staying in their
own home. Even if they have only lived there for a short time it is the place they call home and they
do not want to move. If they have lived in their home for many years it may be almost impossible
to ask them to move. You do not want to ask your elderly relative to do something that may
damage them psychologically. If they are already having physical health problems you should
avoid compounding the problems.

· Will they be able to care for their personal hygiene needs, such as bathing and using the toilet?
One of the most basic forms of independence we have is that of being able to care for our
personal needs of bathing and toileting. To have to rely on a stranger’s help is difficult beyond
belief.

Finding someone to act as a caregiver to our elderly relative may not be an easy thing to do. Older
people become frustrated and angry when their independence and privacy are threatened. At
times they may be hostile, cruel, or abusive to those who attempt to care for them. Conversely,
caregivers to the elderly may react the same way back to the elderly.

Attempt to have a family member care for the older person. Someone who is known to them may
be better equipped to handle the situation. Ask neighbors and agencies if they can recommend
someone who has experience in elder care. Check all references to make sure the caregiver will
act appropriately with your family member.

As the baby boomers continue to age and our population as a whole gets older, elder care will
become an even bigger issue than it is today. There are no simple answers or solutions to
questions and problems that may arise when trying to find a caregiver for an elderly parent or
other relative.

Connie Ragen Green is a motivational author and speaker. Visit her at
http://www.ReinventYourLifeWithPassion.com

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